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Hinge Moments

I have recently started reading “Quitter” by Jon Acuff. In a chapter talking about figuring out what exactly your dream is he talks about “hinge moments”

“A hinge moment occurs when you are planning to do something standard and normal, something you’ve done many times before, like turn a key in the ignition. And then seemingly out of nowhere, something, a small detail usually, hinges you in a different direction. A chance encounter at the grocery store, a stranger’s random comment, one line in an article you read pushes you to a place you were not expecting to go – Page 44″

In reading this, I began to reflect on hinge moments in my life, one in particular came to mind-

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First Dates

Eight years ago today (April 26) I was 17, and nervous. I was getting ready for my senior prom, what is usually the culmination of a period of life. Little did I know (well, maybe I had a little idea) that it was also the beginning of something major.

My senior prom was my first date with Tara, my wife. Although we had gone out before-hand, and gone to a casual dance at school, but my wife calls prom our first date. I still am not sure what the other nights out were, but apparently they were either not good enough/ fun enough to be counted as a date by my wife.

We went to dinner at the Top of the Rock with my best friends from my high school years, in fact, the guys that went with me to prom were all in my wedding four years later.

I was nervous, really nervous. It was the first of many times I saw her all dressed up, and I’m sure I had to scoop my jaw off the floor.

Eight years.

It feels like forever and yesterday.

She has been the best thing that has ever happened to me.

Needless to say, it was the best first date I ever went on.

Don’t be a Sheep

I have encountered many times in my life in ministry those who are seemingly skeptical of education. I have had pastors tell me they had no interest in improving their exegetical skills, or taking the time to further their education in general, that they would rather leave the “hard stuff” up to others and then read what they say about scripture or life.

This attitude disgusts me, and I think really disappoints God. Jesus said these words to His disciples before he sent them out.

Matt 10:16 “Behold, I send you out as sheep in the midst of wolves; so be shrewd as serpents and innocent as doves.”

This is why education is important for pastors, because Jesus commands it. Sadly, many pastors choose to spend time playing golf rather than studying.

We are sheep in the midst of wolves. Sheep are by nature stupid creatures, that is why shepherds are needed. Sheep are vulnerable to wolves. Sheep believe whatever they are told, which is why shepherds must be trustworthy and knowledgeable.

Most pastor’s nail the “innocent as doves” part, they love people, they love God, they have good intentions.

Satan can take good intentions and misguide them just enough to make someone complacent, and make them sitting ducks for failure. If the shepherd is complacent, the sheep are dinner.

If you are in ministry or called to ministry, then you are called to be educated.

Paul says in 1 Corinthians 14 to not be children in your thinking, but to become mature in your thinking.

If you are a pastor, don’t be lazy and rely upon other people to tell you what to believe, because their words are not infallible or inspired, rather take the time to read the scriptures which are infallible and inspired so that you gain knowledge from the source of all knowledge.

Want to get your thinking started? Check out www.projectebenezer.com a new online project from an intelligent friend of mine.

Checking In

It has been a crazy few months. I am 2/3 of the way through my first semester at Phoenix Seminary. I have already had to process more information than I thought I would take in over my entire time in seminary. I am already examining my theology in some very very significant ways. In this process Tara and I after much prayer and struggling decided God was moving us away from our church and to find a new church home. So about 6 weeks ago I said goodbye to our junior high students, who made me cry as they prayed for me and Tara. So combined with visiting churches, reading, studying, writing, and wrestling with changes in my theology, my blog has been quite lonely. So I thought I would check in.

What have you been up to dear reader?

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